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 How people treat you is a reflection of how they feel about themselves. 
 Stay true to yourself and stay close to your heart. Within you lays the answer, deep down we know what’s good and what’s not. Love to all❤️ 
 I have a thought, I fall down this random thought rabbit hole, it has to do with why i exist at a... 
 Word brother/sister💯 I think a lot of us are sharing this thoughts.❤️ 
 Close the window that hurts you even if the view is beautiful. 
 Allowing people to face the consequences of their actions is a true act of love. That’s how we learn, that’s how we develop resilience, that’s how we wake up to the need to work on ourselves. 
 Never be a prisoner of your past. It was just a lesson, not a life sentence. 
 There’s something really special about someone who can share deep parts of themselves with a genuine desire to know deep parts of you. Those conversations are soul food. 
 Self respect says: if I'm not comfortable with something, I'll let the person know even when it scares me. 
 Sometimes you're unsatisfied with your life, while many people in this world are a dreaming of living your life... A child on a farm sees plane fly overhead & dreams of. flying. But, a pilot on the plane sees the Wir farmhouse & dreams of returning home.
That's life! Enjoy yours... if wealth is the secret of happiness, then the rich should be dancing on the streets. But only poor kids do that. If power ensures security, then officials should walk unguarded. But those who live simply, sleep soundly. If beauty and fame bring ideal relationships, then celebrities should have the best marriages. Live simply, walk humbly and love genuinely... All good will come back to you..! 
 No one can read your mind.

If you want it, you’ll have to speak it 
 If basic needs aren’t met, mental wellness cannot exist. 
 Make sure the person you marry isn’t just a continuation of your childhood trauma. 
 Asking for help is a sign of strength. It takes courage to let people help you. It takes humility to accept it.

People won’t know how to help you unless you tell them, directly. 
 Friends give friends space. Some of us are emotionally exhausted. We’re taking time to self isolate and recharge. It’s not personal. Authentic friends welcome you back when the time comes. 
 You don’t need to be the bigger person.
You also don’t need to let them decide who you are.
Your future behavior tells the true story. 
 Protect who is behind you, and respect who is beside you. 
 Never shake a hand sitting down. 
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Gratefu... 
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