nostr:npub1445fh940l7jzg5m9dk3q46zcp3kxts6qtc3p28qegqvfwhcrzgssxeqcgt It's also kind of sad to think that you need to have people for whom these tendencies consume their entire personality rather than just having one person who can, seeing the bigger picture, turn these tendencies, this coldness, on or off depending on whether it's better in the long run.