Seems I've had to add them manually to each client is asking use
@noStrudel has a cool function asking where you would like to add your relay list from. my list is tied to my nip-05. when i sign into nostrudel i can click that option and it populates my whole list. pretty good feature
I have not had time to dig deeper into nostrudel.
I think there's about 4 different ways of doing relay lists, they keep changing it. It's a total mess.
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