For government services, we may have to start political pressure groups. I know it’s much more easily said than done. In my state, it’s very difficult to apply for unemployment if you don’t own the right kind of computer or smart phone, because there are only a few offices (100+ miles apart) and no one ever answers the phone. You are supposed to do it through a complicated online system that doesn’t work on every type of device.
Starting a group and/or meeting with legislators are probably the best steps, though an easier, smaller step would be writing a letter to the editor, especially if you see an article (even if it’s just about that government service, generally) you can use as a springboard.
One way I’ve shifted my behavior a little is just be prioritizing supporting small (or at least not huge) businesses with no self checkouts. Even if a grocery store is a little bit “woke,” for example (with enbies they/them-ing the cash registers), I will sacrifice some of my anti-wokeness in order to shop there instead of at a bigger store with self checkouts. If I need something that is best gotten at a big store, I just don’t use the self-checkouts. (If they don’t have human cashiers at all, I just won’t shop there.) Finally, I minimize the shopping I do online, though it’s hard to avoid it completely due to fact that I sometimes need something very specific and brick and mortar stores seem to have reduced their selection in the past few years.