What is an example of the coercive language you’re thinking of? I’m pretty confident I’ll be able to prove you wrong. Assuming we’re still on the topic of relays storing and distributing notes to other npubs.
Any swear word will do. Certainly it doesn’t matter if you try to post on Nostr clients where relays are storing and distributing notes or if you try any centralized app/website; you won’t be able to post any swear word.