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 Are mute / block lists on nostr public? 
 Yes . 
 Nostrudel.ninja shows you. 
 They can be both. Depending on how your client stores them. Amethyst stores them privately. 
 Thank you for clarifying. I don't want mutees to see I'm muting them. Talk to my hand! 
 It would be great if public mutes were still encrypted using the npub, so that nobody except you/your client knows who you are muting. 

This has the benefit of taking your mute list with you wherever you go, without giving up your #privacy. 

Does anyone know how this is currently implemented in #damus? #asknostr 
 That literally is what private mutes are. Once you encrypt them they are not public anymore 😀 
 (but you use your nsec as anyone can have use your npub) 
 You don’t want your mute list to be the topic of discussion?! Whaaat?! 
 “hi, I’m incapable of being a decent human. Indeed, I’ll mute you. 
But crave you listen to me. 
Fake-ass two faced POS” 

I’m CALLE 
Get fucked 
 “Talk to my hand” is really a public irl mute button though 
 We moved to make it private because showing you disliked someone usually escalates. If they are skilled, they start making bots and hit you with 1000s of DMs, replies, quotes from random accounts to annoy you. 

Keeping it private solves the problem without creating more problems. 
 Was that decision made because of a real case? 
 Lots of real cases. Some stuff still happens today, but it is much less these days. 
 Wow, I thought that nostr was not susceptible to these types of attacks... At least they happen less often now. 
 @mleku makes good bots to DDOS relays 
 Thank you for working on solving this problem Vitor and sorry you have to deal with it M. 
 What kind of pussyfooting shite is that? 

Petty AF. 

You respect 🫡 your own choice & believe people should listen to you & then don’t offer others the same respect ✊ 

Get ducked. You must be that flamingo 🦩 sloot. If not, go make friends. 
 Exhibit 1 ☝️ 
 Not sure what that even means but … 
Bring all the receipts 🧾 
Certainly… 

Cause if you don’t know who I am IRL 
Most likely 

I outrank you in every way. 🤣🤣🤣 
 I thought amethyst mute list shows up on Nostrudel. Not sure now. 
 That means that your mute/block list doesn’t travel between clients if it’s stored by an app privately. 
 It's not stored in the app privately but it's encrypted in your mute list. 

https://github.com/nostr-protocol/nips/blob/master/51.md 
 I think so. You can see them on Nostrudel in the Lists tab if your profile. I believe there are private ways of doing this too. No idea what it is tho  
 yes. nostrudel lists a user's mute list in the right most tab of the UI 
 actually, the user's own mute list is under "lists" on nostrudel.  
 Even our favorite nostriches can be annoying at times. That's why I feel like mutes should auto-expire after 24 hours unless the muter has unfollowed the mutee.

Why would I mute someone but not unfollow them?

The only reasons I can think of is either 1) I need a temporary break from them or 2) I'm afraid they'll notice the unfollow, be petty enough to return the favor, depriving me of their sweet zaps.

nostr:note1zf8nff6su630rqj49fc5rxs88p7taz9vz23vt8zpxrg57v8r2k3saqzljw 
 I’m such a narcissist 
Omg 
😳 

Wen I saw this note first though was I bet he’s talking about me 

Why does everyone wanna mute me? lol 

Then I remembered that the 🌎 probably doesn’t revolve around me… 
 
Also, can we see who has muted us?