What other ideas do you have for an “ethical social media” 

I’ll start.  

1. I’d want a “create only” mode.  Too often I open an app to do something and completely get thrown off the rails or make the post then get sucked in.  

2. Push notifications off by default.  

What else? 
nostr:note1nh0j5pxdnc5vd0mkz05u2q7s859tvy6nscalgcw8rcfx79v67ksqhjf9p8