I know you are frustrated right now, but you have a plan and a direction you are working towards.  You can see some good things coming and can see your coming ability to do some good things (for your parents).  The transition may be painful, but the good thing is you are heading in the right direction.  Be thankful that you aren't one of the people who are being pushed along by the stream of life with no direction, no purpose, and no idea why things aren't going as they hoped.

Lean on God and watch for the wonderful things He is doing in your life.