That's the thing and to my point....

If women post a flattering photo of themselves, it gets zaps from both ends of the aisle as well. 

If I post a flattering photo of myself, no zaps and minimal replies. Almost like people dont want to be exposed for either paying attention to it and liking it. 

Except of course for homosexual males. They would have no problem zapping or brazenly..making flirtatious remarks. They have formulated an idea of themselves within the general populace's mind and take full advantage of this predisposition. 

They really have carved out a world (with the help of everyone else as well) where they get to brazenly say statements humans in other demographics would not dare to because of perceived negative connotations. 

It's actually quite amazing to think about.