nostr:npub1vhevxct0z6vcu4jsmnyd0nak27rpe0wt404muywzjsgzfrglaw3qpj3ps4 at 37 I was also diagnosed with cancer. my wife (not married then) were only together for about a year. I was alone at the hospital when the docs told me the news. I really thought I was going to loose her. turns out she, and all of her family, were there for me. my own family was not. I had an agressive chemo therapy and was sick most of the time. but what I remember most is the fact that you get to know who is behind you and who is not. just be honest with everybody and go for it.1/2