So far, I believe we have a community who understands and keeps most of the details of their personal lives private, as they should. The whole point of this place is freedom (at least most dev positions), if you put too much of yourself out there your going to attract attention. I feel like you should just be ready for it, that doesn't excuse morally wrong behavior to be clear. 

>  I don’t allow anyone behind a phone or computer to ruin a moment of my day.
Exactly the attitude that makes sense IMO, very few of us on here know each other (or will ever meet each other) 

I swear I break my signing server wayyyy too often to spend much time on nostr.