nostr:npub1mndjh740f8nzfm5wg7cyyn32a9htryjnr46qyct28005yyglks5smkjap8 it's clearly implied to be a man given the quotes around "female" in the post.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUf7g8CvwWk

"there is evidence she is not real."

another quote from josh:
"A TF2 tranny of which, let's be real there are many, stole photos from a random prostitute... ...so he could catfish nick rekieta and in the process destroy his relationship with his wife."