been saying this for about 3 months, there needs to be a field in the filter to exclude event IDs from being sent back.. or a bloom filter for excludes, whichever thing you think is more expensive, bloom filter match or the space for the exclude event ID array

anyhow, y'all gonna figure it out one way or another, i've worked out that none of you pay that much attention to what i say, and i get to play Cassandra in this show