Last bf I had was last fall. Broke it off in January. If it's any consolation I just made an agreement with one Podunk Potato to get in touch with a guy I met earlier this year who has an obvious crush on me and see if he's one of these good men you say exist. If he takes advantage of me in any way, which I assume he will, I am permanently disavowing men. Yes, I am fickle, but don't say I didn't try with men!