It's weird when cis people feel like they own gender without understanding it.

The number of aggressively "supportive" cis white women demanding to know why I can't just be "a feminine man."

I like feminine men. They're great. But they're not women. And I am. That's it.

It's like the people who feel possessive about being American and want to keep others out when it's purely an accident of birth on their part.