this is the new cult of monero narrative now
"but we need to be able to pay of the value of an average car like maybe once a year, but muh monero" lol
payments that size are usually for stuff like a whole car or a small piece of land
everything else can be moved around in small amounts
and you can use tor and only ever make spends or give addresses to send to via tor
you have to do that anyway even with monero, even if there is obfuscation about the payment when it appears on chain
the use case just doesn't exist for monero, and you'll eventually figure that out when it goes to zero