Hate to see it happen but I am usually too late to be of any help.
I fear for the two women having recently joined my work place to be grossed out and away in no time, so I try to bond with them as much as I can to offer them some anchor to help them if something does go south :/
Makes me sad - and mad.

Yes, I have a sausage. Yes, I am a horniboi sometimes. But goddamnit, even I know how to treat others nice independent of their identity. So unfortunate to see that other's just... can't. :/