I don't disagree with that message but it is cruel to exaggerate these odds, it's like a lieutenant in WWI saying that they 'don't have that much artillery or machine guns' and you'll "totally be safe running across no man's land bro". This isn't to say you should go full doomer blackpill and give up but you can't be delusional about reality, and the sad reality is that for most young men, they are going to struggle a whole ton to find a wife, through no fault of their own, besides the tragic circumstances of the day.