A few. When this has happened previously it's usually about 10-15 and usually random. There the occasional that I lose every time. This time it looks like the # stayed but the bookmarks dropped.
That's so strange. Do you use any other client? I wonder if clients are saving to different relays and not syncing up. So, you follow 14 people in one, but the other doesn't update and you follow over there. Now the first gets an update event with 14 less follows.
Yes I use Nostrudel on desktop doesn't drop. It's strange that's why I figured I was doing something wrong. Well that and essentially I have no clue what I'm doing