I think the seed many people need, is that we missinterprete many things everyday. So to sometimes just turn off the "what think the others"-mechanism and turn on more the compass of "what do I want to achieve?"

And I think this story of the two wolves we have to think of more often:
https://njump.me/nevent1qqs8m0pgumn3h7dze8etmcffkygdm352kr68ghn0fd9ryfl67nt0rrcpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7q3qkl8e7s48j6cfr6zrmn53n5l0fsxustszj3fwmu9ahn0tnm9e8euqxpqqqqqqz7y8jje