@borsengelaber to confirm, are you using Damus iOS?

In the Damus DMs tab check:
1) requests tab - new DM requests sometimes appear here
2) check if your friends/WOT filter is on or off (top right DM tab) 

 some relays might be filtering spam messages, so you still might get the notif, whilst not displaying the msg 

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