I recommend using the proprietary Pi cable and a UBS/Surge protector when possible
But yeah, three failures is no good. Just out of curiosity, did you check if the SD card had failed?
100% use only the RPI AC cable.
Beyond that, SD card corruption was my biggest problem.
I repurposed my Pi 4 as a general purpose Ubuntu box and flashed the firmware to boot directly from SSD. Smooth sailing ever since.