How to notice a π Good Man π§ With π― Good Man, Iβm not referring to a βNice π Guyβ (see previous post for definition). Iβm talking π about π a man who π― is and wants good, but π who also knows and loves boundaries. A Good π Man is π₯ confident, and kind. He π€ knows how to π say No. He π₯ treats you with respect, and expects you to treat him with respect, and if you donβt, heβll simply move on, π unlike the Nice Guy who π₯ sticks around because he needs validation from π you. A Good Man π wants to get π married, and doesnβt play games. He π wants to be the man of π one woman, a π good woman, whom he π― can raise good kids with. Even if he doesnβt π₯ want kids, if they happen to π come along, π heβll take π₯ on the job as a π₯ dad with joy. A Good Man knows π how to lead, and how to encourage others π to lead. π He π gives space for others to try new things, and encourages them π₯ even if they π― fail. A Good Man can π spot π the π difference between someone who π needs a second π chance to succeed, π₯ and π€ one who has decided to fail no matter how many chances π they get. π A π€ Good π€ Man is π€ authentic and speaks π the π truth even π when π― it's uncomfortable.
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