My 2 sats:

You must have a purpose and passion in your life that drives you.  A goal / mission that you dedicate yourself to… your way to make an impact on this world.  A job is not enough.  Having money is not enough.  Without it, you are not the Captain of your ship on an adventure with purpose… 

Women sign up for the adventure/journey… they want to step onto the ship (into the world/adventure) that you create… and they want to know that you can lead, handle pressure, and trust that it will all work out for the best in the end… they will test you, and you need to have the conviction and confidence that your path and purpose are genuine in order to BE the man they need you to be.  

This might sound strange, but this situation you are in, it’s NOT about the girl… it’s about you.  You have to find your purpose in life, and then relentlessly impact the world in a positive way pursuing it.  If you do that, you will meet the women you are meant to be with, because you will find a woman in the spheres that journey passes through… someone who will recognize that fire and drive, and sign up for the lifelong adventure, knowing you’re committed.

You cannot make a woman the center of your life, nor the goal of a family the central reasons you make decisions.  

You are here for a reason.  You have a purpose.  You must find what it is… when you become the Captain of the ship and you know where you are going… the woman will enter your life.

Focus on how you will make this world a better place, and how you can become the best man you can be… and the woman and family will come 🙏🏼