I'd personally would not consider it self-censor in a sense that I give respect to others as much as I want to be respected. I also ask myself, if I am at the receiving end of this, how would I feel? My point is if I speak ill to others, it speaks volume of my character, how much self-respect I have in myself. This is different too from constructive feedback. Respect begets respect. ☺️❤️✌️