Oddbean new post about login | logout I care about other people's highest good as well. If I can carry their weight in a net positive way (add 10% to my burden, but makes them 50% faster), so be it.
People need dignity of carrying their own weight as well. Helping a butterfly out of its cocoon weakens it and it never flies. Just dies. So helping is illusion. Walk beside others. Sure. But do there work? Not good for anyone.
Makes sense... but what can I say when I'm a sucker for trying to help. Too late to change now 😘