I use lightning to pay for paying friends back, buying goods (oshi, in person meetups, bitcoin events, buying meat, being the dj on nostr:npub1ua6fxn9ktc4jncanf79jzvklgjftcdrt5etverwzzg0lgpmg3hsq2gh6v6) I mainly use wallet of satoshi for ease of use but am going to look into Phoenix. Don't care it's custodial. Don't keep much on there. ⚡⚡⚡⚡