How π to π notice a Good Man π§ With Good Man, π Iβm π₯ not referring to a βNice π Guyβ (see previous post for definition). Iβm talking about a man π who is and wants good, π but who π also knows and π loves boundaries. π A Good Man is confident, π and kind. He π― knows how to say No. He treats you with respect, π€ and expects π you to treat him π with respect, and π if you donβt, heβll simply move on, π€ unlike the Nice π Guy who sticks π― around because he needs validation π from you. A Good π Man π€ wants to get married, π and π doesnβt play π games. He π₯ wants to π be the man of one π woman, a good woman, π₯ whom he π can raise good kids with. Even if he doesnβt want kids, if they happen to come along, heβll take on the π job as a π dad with joy. A Good π€ Man knows how to π lead, and how to encourage others to lead. He gives space for π― others to π try new things, and encourages them π even if they fail. A Good π Man can spot the π difference between someone who π needs π₯ a second π chance to succeed, and one who has decided to fail no matter π how many chances they get. A Good Man is authentic and speaks π― the truth even when it's uncomfortable.
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