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 Look at her and tell me I don’t know about toxicity in multiple environments 😂😂😂

Yet: I have empathy. Maybe 🤔 you will understand one day. Some of the best advice an old Ranger gave me: you see everything in black & white. As you age: I hope you see the shades of grey. He was right. Hugs 🫂 https://image.nostr.build/8653ebe000c7b99ad39df838a9a9a25ddcc71fe589b9b7420d9527a00fc99f13.jpg  
 I'm sorry.  My brain does not speak this language. 
 We all play our part. It’s all good. 😊 respect and reverence to you. 
 I want to give you my honest opinion.  No jokes, no sarcasm.  Men are not supposed to love women collectively and vise versa.
A man cannot love all woman.  A man cannot even adequately love a single woman because no amount of signalling, sacrifice and endearment can convey deep love when it is sincere and true.

A man should find a woman and a woman should make herself available to be found.

If you go onto the nostr profiles of women who are married with children you find that what they post is rarely about themselves and how unfair the world is and more about how they can improve the circumstances of their family.  

Men have the duty to confront the chaos of nature and establish good and useful order so that women can thrive in the serene environment the men aspire to create.  If a woman is without a man and then she is a question mark to all men and woman alike. To single woman she is competition and to married woman she is a threat of intrusion.

Male toxicity to single woman is not evil but good.  He estranges any potential personal friendship from forming.

I am only ever friendly with woman in her husbands company.  If I am alone with her I am professional and curt.

In Matthew 18 it says.  

“Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother. 16But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that ‘by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.’ 17And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector. 

Now imagine some guy got into an argument with my wife.  Does he now get to go outside alone with her to sort it out?  Fuck no.  If he has a problem with her he has a problem with me.  No man gets to have a problem with my wife.  Ever.

My personal respect and "empathy" stretches to those whom are labelled such.  
James 1:27 Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.  

So I have a moral duty to assist and respect a widow as she is one who has lost that which was created and gifted to her as support and companionship.  

I have no moral obligation to any woman other that.  Anything more ends in socialism. 
 The majority of the #nostr profiles on here are by #women who have red pilled men so it’s an inaccurate representation of women as a whole. I’ve already raised my children & work for #humanity. As I said: everyone has their place. 


“Men have the duty to confront the chaos of nature and establish good and useful order so that women can thrive in the serene environment the men aspire to create. “

Men had the last 5000 years & destroyed the world. Women lead now. Hence the chaos. We’ve already been the natural leaders of society.  


“If a woman is without a man and then she is a question mark to all men and woman alike. To single woman she is competition and to married woman she is a threat of intrusion.” 

Oh please. Fierce women don’t fear other women: they fight against corruption. Take your seat. Don’t spout nonsense about male patriarchy to a woman who sees through the falseness. Good luck to you. 
 Okay. 
 I just realised I don't know what redpilled even means.