actually now that i think of it the two ( or more than two ) are not mutually exclusive.
you can have monogamous marriage and a woman can be married to a beta or a homosexual and be impregnated by an alpha who is married to somebody else.
that is the monogamous marriage cell may be useful for raising children but the children may be somebody else's.
i think it was a Jew who said that the secret to happy life is to get married ... and cheat. i was never able to find a flaw in that argument.
in other words all women are the same ( all women are bisexual but will submit to whoever is strongest, which happens to be men )
but men fall into at least 3 categories: Alphas, Betas and Homosexuals - in other words men who lay claim to ALL women, to just ONE woman and to NO women.
this strange urge MAGA Christians have to make everybody equal and interchangeable ( a man is a man and all men are the same ) is oddly communist for people seemingly obsessed with fighting communism.
reality is of course that Christianity is spiritual communism, whereas Communism is economic / statist Christianity.
and both Communism and Christianity ( as well as Capitalism and Atheism ) are controlled by the Jews.