It is critical to everyone, not just Nostr, that you and your fellow independents, succeed. In any environment, there will others with greater strengths, that pose threats and competition.

As for the white noise, it is just that. 

We have all been programmed to be greedy. We want it all yesterday. And of course none us want to put in the effort to get that great free stuff. Hell! We got gold stars for turning up at school! 

The people adopting, testing, playing, even breaking your apps are your advocates, the ones to tune into. Sure the way they communicate can sometimes be improved.  

Keep sharing what you are doing too. When others know the great strides you have to take, to make simple things work ... maybe they will send more than love and Zaps 😀  You never know who is watching, listening and ready to support a great idea.

Keep strong, beleive in what you do. Many a great idea started with numerous set backs. And those of us that share in your dream, will have your back.