nostr:npub1m2lq440p5h5a4t8uugcpa9z8huuechhegwspr8rs7fn7fv9m602sz3qlv3 Obviously, I wouldn't assume she knows less or is less capable NOW  because

1) I'm not a pig
2) it's the same person 

But at the same  time I'm supposed to NOT  think of her as the same person. So, how do I still carry forward that professional trust?