The latest versions of WoT and Haven relays will no longer support NIP-04 DMs

Kind 4 leaks way too much data and isn't appropriate for private messages in my opinion 

You can update to the latest master branch if you want this update now, but I won't make it an official release for another 4 weeks

https://i.nostr.build/xm9jp0SsoFm8MPGJ.jpg