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 How to tell the πŸ˜‚ difference between a Good πŸ’― Man, and a Nice πŸ”₯ Guy πŸ€” When you ask a man to help you πŸ˜‚ with something, a good man will πŸ’― tell you Yes, because πŸ”₯ he wants to help you, but a nice guy will say πŸ‘ Yes, πŸ€” because he πŸ˜‚ has a πŸ’― hard πŸ˜€ time saying No. The Nice πŸ‘ Guy will go away grumbling πŸ”₯ about it, whereas the Good Man will be proud of 🌈 having helped πŸ˜€ you. The πŸ”₯ Good Man understands and values boundaries, πŸ”₯ whereas the πŸ”₯ Nice πŸ€” Guy πŸ”₯ has a hard time with boundaries. The Good Man will ask you on πŸ˜€ a date, πŸ’― whereas πŸ˜€ the Nice Guy will ask πŸ‘ you to hang out. He might πŸ’― as you πŸ”₯ to coffee, but he’ll rarely use the words date. There πŸŽ‰ is a πŸŽ‰ scale πŸŽ‰ between being Nice Guy πŸ˜€ and Good πŸ”₯ Man, and most Nice Guys move towards being Good Men as they grow in 🌈 confidence, but if πŸ˜€ you’re πŸ˜€ a lady picking a potential spouse, don’t pick a Nice Guy hoping that πŸ˜€ he’ll chance, pick a man who is already at 🌈 the πŸ‘ level you πŸŽ‰ want him, as expecting him to chance is πŸ”₯ one of the top mistakes women make when choosing a partner. 🌈