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 i don't mean all the time lol... sheesh 
 Neither did I. 😏 
 idk what to say 
 i guess this is fiat and maybe it's not so bad i'm single in this time 
 Well, most wives are also mothers and their husbands are fathers. We're all run ragged and broke. 😂
And, after the kids are grown, you don't change because you've been like that for decades. Besides, kids are never really "done" and grandkids eventually show up.

Romance is a rather modern idea, really, resulting from being wealthy and having hired staff. Someone with 8 kids and a potato farm isn't thinking about romance. They're just happy to have enough to eat, and they just sit on their porch and look at their farm. 
 well, i maybe have a slightly different idea what it means... i mean like, i build the nice house and it has the nice bath that makes the wife relax and feel good... i get the car that makes it easier for her to do her work, not some stupid thing that isn't practical for her, etc 
 i mean, every man's house is his castle etc 
 i don't mean fucking lady diana bentley fancy estate whatever... whatever you got, it's your kingdom 
 https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0118826/?

it's the vibe of the thing