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 What you just described is very close to what I wish. I come from the valleys of Kashmir, and I ultimately want to return there.

The question you asked is quite complex, and I don’t think anyone has a perfect answer for it.
Honestly, if I don’t find a woman who shares my core values, I probably wouldn’t marry. This isn’t a compromise I’m willing to make.

It’s not about a specific plan that can change; we can even come up with something better. It’s really about our core values and how we perceive the world.