Of course Family is the most important thing to build. That's on you. It's fostered most by wealth and community. 
nostr:nevent1qqs8t20vgu7dkyarus8gksp2pljrtudw6gappx5nkveyw5rr30yx3kgprdmhxue69uhkummnw3ezu6rpwpc8jarpwejhym3wvdhj7q3qzmc6qyqdfnllhnzzxr5wpepfpnzcf8q6m3jdveflmgruqvd3qa9sxpqqqqqqzux4eya