How π₯ to notice a π― Good Man π§ With Good Man, Iβm not referring to a βNice Guyβ π― (see previous π post for π definition). π Iβm talking about a π₯ man who is and wants π― good, but who also knows π and loves boundaries. A Good Man π is confident, and kind. π― He knows how to say No. π― He treats you with respect, and expects π you to treat him with respect, and if you donβt, heβll π simply move on, unlike the Nice Guy who sticks around because he needs validation from you. A Good Man wants to get π married, and doesnβt π play games. He wants to be the π man of one π woman, a good woman, whom he π can raise good kids with. Even if he doesnβt want π kids, if they happen to come along, heβll take on the π job as a dad with joy. π A π€ Good Man π knows how to lead, and how π to encourage others to lead. π He gives space for others to try new things, and encourages them π₯ even if π they fail. A π Good Man π can spot the difference π between π€ someone π who needs π― a second π chance π to succeed, and one who π has decided to π€ fail no matter how π― many π€ chances they get. π A Good Man is authentic and speaks the truth even when π₯ it's π― uncomfortable.
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