BitBurn makes sense and what he says doesn't exclude what you wish to see Nostr turn into. Neitherof your points contradict other points.
The Nostr "brand" is add-free, no banning, no algos pushing addictive crap...
The zaps are a cool feature that needs to be further experimented with.
Instagram, tiktok is full of immoral individuals who gain followers with low iq content and then companies recruit them to shill shit. This can work here too but zaps play no part of it. X pays a share of ad revenue, which is outright impossible here unless ads are allowed, and again zaps play no role in that. Nostr is a whole new animal.