relay.nostrplebs.com is my NIP-05 relay. The first one I got.
nostrelay.yeghro.site because all my friends use it. both of them.
relay.snort.social because my other friends use that client
studio314.nostr1.com because it's run by a friend and I got it for free

Then I have: 
relay.damus.io because it's again used by many friends.
hist.nostr.land because nuking your profile sucks
nostr.band cause they do a good job in spam control
nostr.mutinywallet.com I only write to that one but don't read.
nos.lol because it's popular but again I only write to it.
noswhere.com can't remember why I've added that one.