if something by asking that is certain that time has come it needs a pause to spend instead some around its reflection. Later, asking how much time for a "pause" is reasonable is the same as coming back to the first question 🐸 . Sounds sketchy, probably dumb, but is not false and is different from a simple "you'll certainly will know for yourself when it's the right time". Eeen fin, buenas noches 🌜 .