Thank you. Sounds like she was open. 
I house sat for my friends for the last three months and put away all their scratched non sticky pans they were automate in cooking in. Replaced them with a whole brand new set of stainless steel that was just sitting there I imagine for years. First thing my friend did when she returned home is call to ask where I left the old scratch pans cos she needed to make pancakes. We had a short talk where she began to defend the pan that it's not aluminum and it doesn't leak anyways unless it's a certain degree. 
Years ago they were explaining to me how I am stupid because organic is just a fad for people to spend more on their food. 
I asked her yesterday if the grapes she was feeding her 3 year old were organic as I wanted to have some and she replied that she hopes so... She didn't buy them. We both knew they aren't. Being that I have been censored and asked to not share my health advice because it feels offensive to their life choices I just said under my nose "you should probably get on the same page and educate your husband to not feed your child pesticides". I am not sure she heard me. 
My point is, it's not just seed oils. It's literally everything from offensive synthetic fragrances to toxic cleaning supplies to gmo soy and seed oils. 
I don't really have the energy to continue doing something I've failed for the most part in over a decade. 
But please give me some resources anyways.