This is the right choice.  I don't generally have any response to self-portraits on social media regardless, but to the sentiment here I raise my glass.  You look beautiful and many people have much less societally championed features than you. My girlfriend is atypical of many of these standards but she is outrageously gorgeous. People need to do all they can to focus on the voices of individuals instead of parrot squawks from their chosen or inherited groups. It will help us all waste less of our depressingly limited time here.