Guess I'm missing why paid relays are adding value to an individual nostr user. Maybe focus more on the value add rather than the techie stuff behind the paid relay.
I’ve talked a lot about this! Also I’d encourage you to read the doc I linked about filter.nostr.wine as it explains the value add of that relay in particular. nostr:note1ymvm6rkxpzngg29lsfrzkrslehw04yzk7fxxk6a229upgsysxneqf2pnta
I'm thinking more like "tired of seeing porn on nostr". Then subscribe to this relay and we'll filter this out for you. OR Do you have young children using 'nostr' then subscribe to this relay which filter out content not appropriate for young children.