Actually Pokey also seems like an interesting solution if you decide to *not* install any other Nostr app on your phone: just get the notification without getting trapped, and put off any activity until when you are at your PC. 

nostr:npub1v3tgrwwsv7c6xckyhm5dmluc05jxd4yeqhpxew87chn0kua0tjzqc6yvjh maybe you could think about some specific features for this use case, for example the possibility to pin a notification and snoze it, ora add a short note.