nostr:npub1g3jqw8qrj9ppv3wjvg7pqajlwxsl53grmvagcy9pdyzjkthzlhpqvs69f8 Entirely tangentelizing here, but I really think we should normalize inviting friends over while you do chores/tasks/etc, be in a shared space and talk and similar.  Not so much to actually help you with the tasks directly, but while you're doing laundry they can tell you about that time where that thing happened.  Drinking is optional.

'Come over and hang out' seems to be seen as...overly juvenile, and it really shouldn't be.