Oddbean new post about login | logout pls share some proof with those accusations? it seems i may have personally offended you. critiquing ≠ hate. You seem to neglect the fact that there’s a never ending stream of hateful personal attacks I get on almost every post. Please remember, you are a grown man, and a father, I have lots of respect for you, and always will, but this seems personal.
If I was keeping detailed records of your posts in order to offer "proof" then that would be a little weird. I'm just telling you how you come across on a regular basis as I see your posts and replies in my timeline...not all the time, but enough that it's noticeable. If you disagree then so be it, and if others disagree then it must be a "me" problem. You have not personally offended me and it is not up to me try to tell you what to say or not say online, especially not on a free speech protocol. But what you say and how you say it does not occur in a vacuum. Your negativity can be as off-putting as your positivity can be infectious when it's on display. It's one thing to "critique" people but it's another thing entirely to put people down as if they're beneath you, and your "critiques" regularly have a holier-than-thou tone to them. It's just my opinion. Take it or leave it. You post your "critiques" of people publicly so I'm just saying all this publicly.
I think the negative comments you are talking about are responses to the negative replies I consistently get. When you have zero proof of the hatred i apparently instill on the daily, I can’t respond. This is just all opinion based words, this is a hate comment itself actually. Who’s the negative one?
I feel as if you’re taking my genuine responses and words about people and things as passive aggressive, when i never mean to, the way i say things may sound sarcastic, but i’m truly being genuine, as opposed to the fact, if people have some personal attacks for me, i will respond to it, and i understand i don’t respond kindly, i just can’t win on here with anything I do, so when older folk don’t understand my cadence, i can’t help it.
No, I take your passive aggressiveness as passive aggressive 😂 And I'm beginning to think you also have a knack for gaslighting people. And yes these are my opinions. That's generally what people share with each other. I didn't share my opinion expecting you to like it but I'm old enough to not give a shit how people feel about my opinions. If I wasn't intentionally trying to ruffle your feathers a little then I would have just scrolled by and wouldn't have said anything at all, but for someone who spends so much of her energy telling other people to stop criticizing her, you may want to think a little more about how you yourself come across.
again, without any proof, your words have no merit. where is this gaslighting? When did i tell people to stop criticizing me? Again, this feels like a personal issue you have with me. Sending you love. Not in a passive aggressive way either, just genuinely taken aback by your notes.