Can anyone smarter than me figure out why my DMs are borked?

I can receive, but can't reply.

If I add nostr.wine to my 'General Relays' they are sent there, but nowhere else publicly. If I remove nostr.wine they are sent nowhere, apart from Citrine.

I currently have only filter.nostr.wine in my General relays. DM replies are not sent there.

If I gift-wrap my DMs they are send to my DM relay, inbox.nostr.wine. If not, they only go to Citrine.

Have reinstalled #Amethyst.

Any ideas nostr:nprofile1qqsyvrp9u6p0mfur9dfdru3d853tx9mdjuhkphxuxgfwmryja7zsvhqpzamhxue69uhhv6t5daezumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcpz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7qgwwaehxw309ahx7uewd3hkctcscpyug and nostr:nprofile1qqsrmpp2lmx4u2fl9zmxy7fnwp9rlwxwz5a2j8tep2c376n494z2gtgpzamhxue69uhkxun9v968ytnwdaehgu3wwa5kuegprpmhxue69uhhwetvvdhk6efwdehhxarj9emkjmn9qyt8wumn8ghj76twvfhhstnwdaehgu3wwa5kueg6jsgtg?

#asknostr

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