you should definitely have a look around and stop by the community chat room (link on keets profile page)

there is lots of resources like,  https://pears.com/ , https://docs.pears.com/ , https://youtube.com/@Pears_p2p , https://github.com/holepunchto , https://github.com/gasolin/awesome-pears

a great introductory podcast is https://youtube.com/watch?v=Qqmdbv01PEk

maybe one day you might do one, i was listening to your chat with nostr:npub1ye5ptcxfyyxl5vjvdjar2ua3f0hynkjzpx552mu5snj3qmx5pzjscpknpr and kept thinking pear is what you need