agree, but I distinguish people who are irremediably lost and act maliciously to me, and people that are just confused and vaguely statists. 
From these last people, I try to get the best I can, maybe there are other fields where we can enrich each others. 
Lot of my friends and families are normies vaguely-statists, but they just elaborate the world they know with their competences, they are not bad people. And most of the time, I just feel bad for them and their "incapacity", so far from hate them.

When I was younger I was a lot of things and thinked a lot of things that now I consider bullshits. But I was just ignorant and confused, most people are.